Sometimes a random appreciation, a sudden smile, a true help to others is enough to make someone’s day or even life.
“She has always loved the idea of love, the feeling of loving and being loved. The whole ideology of being in love has always made her happy.
So she easily got pushed into the thought of being in love when they were really good friends. He told her that’s not how friends are; let’s be in love. With the adrenaline rush and always having seen the true and forever love of the elders around her, she accepted his proposal and the idea of betrayal could not even pop up.
She was got to fallen in love. She thought they were happy together. Gradually all she wanted was his happiness, his smiles, his comforts and his luxury which from the day one, never included her. But she thought that’s how love is supposed to be,, to be happy in someone else’s happiness,, to compromise and sacrifice for your partner. That’s what she did since that’s what she was taught to do when girls are hooked up with someone.
And she was happy,, though ignored and then not even noticed eventually,, but she kept herself happy.
She was told by friends of him being cheating on her, never did She believe anyone except him and he refused. She was told by family that she shall not wait for him as he never belonged to her, yet again she trusted him when he assured her that he would soon make things better and be the best mate in the world. She waited. And he took all her love for granted.
Never came that soon. The three winks went by.
After all these years of loneliness with him, she decided to step out and work her passion. She got to meet someone who just genuinely appreciated her and her Work and she felt important in her own eyes.
After such a long time, she truly felt happy. She felt confident and alive. She slowly realised what she had been losing waiting for a guy who probably was never hers. It was only she who had been dying each day to make him happy.
She realised that it was not only the guy who was at fault, it was her more than him, who had let him undermine herself in her own eyes. It was her who accepted that humiliation for his false happiness.
“Zulm Karne wale se sehne wala zyada ghunegaar hota hai”
That unknown person had thought her to love herself again. And she walked tall out of that not so beautiful bond with him; not fearing what the society would say of her.
While she walked with her head high, she did not lose her trust on love unlike others,, she realised that that surely can’t be love and believed that she would be lucky to experience actual real love for sure in her lifetime. This spirit of hers helped her live happily spreading love and joy.”
She rose but many give up their lives for such boyfriends or husbands who enjoy their sufferings. Kindly rethink about your bond. Realise it’s not love and walk out of such lives into a better world without such partners.
None who loves you would hurt you (physically or mentally or emotionally), insult you, humiliate you or leave you for the sake of their own comforts.
And if they do and you are happy to tolerate the pain then there ain’t any love between you for sure.